You know, there are a lot of people who claim to know "what's wrong with this country", and even more people who criticize the lack of outrage for a specific happening, or even go so far as to say that attention for one subject is wasted in lieu of another. There's so much evil in this country, and it honestly feels sometimes that a good-natured collective can do about as much to fix it as popsicles might do against global warming.
I try to make life a little better while I'm here, I really do. I learn about things I don't yet understand, I talk to people with opposing views than my own, I try to find a decent middle road to walk without stepping on anyone else. But against everything that happens in this country, and as often as it happens, and as nauseatingly evil as it all seems, the clear fact remains that I'm just one person, and there's no amount I could do to make me feel any less sick to my stomach that I volunteered six years of my life to defend a country that seems to want to tear itself apart. I might as well try to empty the Atlantic Ocean into the Pacific, on foot, one bucket at a time.
And so the thought returns time and again;
I could just bail.
I could leave, move to Canada, get citizenship, and wash my hands of everything I've had to watch the country of my birth do for all the years I've been aware. It wouldn't be hard, save for the probable mountain of paperwork, packing up my stuff and making the drive. And at times it feels like the idea is a lovely glowing 'I Quit' button that I could press at any moment.
I Quit... it's those two simple words that snap me back to reality. That's exactly what I would be doing, quitting. Admit defeat, toss up my hands and saying "that's enough, you got me, I'm done, I quit." How could I live with myself after that? Sure my life itself might be improved by leaving, but where does that leave everyone else? What about the people who risked everything just to get to the states and now have to live with the harsh truths that 1. They are not wanted by the "natives", 2. They cannot express any sort of individuality outside the unwritten rules of what is "normal", and 3. They most likely cannot go anywhere else. Unlike me, they bailed into the wrong place.
There's too much wrong with this country. There's so much, that anyone who can even attempt to put a dent in it, ought to at least give it their best shot before quitting.
I don't know how much I have left in me, or how much longer I can stomach the potpourri of terrible doings in this country every single day, but I can still stand. I can still talk. I can still listen. And against all my better judgment, I'm not giving up yet.
EDIT: Literally the day after I wrote this post, marriage equality was passed nationwide. I'm glad I didn't bail.
Thursday, June 25, 2015
Thursday, March 19, 2015
The Barber's Chair
Sasha Green loved being a barber, everything about it made her revel in joy from opening the shop in the morning, to the long walk home in the evening. She would spend any moment not spent barbering imagining new and better ways to cut hair, shave stubble, and what lotions would go best with which people, because she believed that each concoction of oils and lotions was much like the people she applied them to, no one exactly alike and each of them beautifully special in its own way.
The customers, oh how she loved the customers; the smell of their hair, the sometimes nonsensical contours of their skin, and her job afforded her a level of intimacy that would certainly not be abided in any other profession. People listened to her when they sat in her chair, and why not? When she spoke to someone in that chair, her word was practically law; she would have the very last word on any new style a client wanted to try, any brash and daring colors they wanted their hair to be, and no one dared question her. After all the decisions were made, she would delve deeper, beyond and below the fragile surfaces that she sculpted and repaired, and partook in deep and meaningful conversations with the customer, from the monotony of their weekly lives, to their fondest memories, their deepest hopes and their darkest fears. They trusted her implicitly, their head cradled in her tensile and deliberate fingers, fingers holding the sharpest instruments you'd ever hope to find, and yet in Sasha's care, not one customer in her tenure had left with so much as a scratch.
Snip Snip
Her chair, the only chair in her cozy little studio, was a fine restoration of an old Prohibition-era model, with solid polished oak frame, and upholstered with a warm chocolate-brown leather that made it seem so inviting that it might as well have a voice of its own, beckoning every passerby to come and have a sit. She had a large window installed to replace the wall separating her studio from the street outside, in the building's old age, the wall had become infested with nasty molds of various colors, and rather than spend exorbitant amounts of time and money to remove the molds, she'd simply had the wall removed entirely to be replaced by a large pane of solid (and quite mold-proof) glass. This seemed to help her business in other ways, with the natural light coming in during the day, her customers could see their new looks as the light of the sun hit them, a sensation she equated to "seeing yourself for the very first time", and her customers loved the sense of rejuvenation and renewal that it granted them.
Sasha's daily routine was always the same, and yet always different; from open to close her chair was full of people who wanted touch-ups, trims, shaves, dye jobs, and at odd intervals the "complete change-up makeover". None of which ever happened without Sasha's approval, she'd never allow someone to leave her studio looking foolishly groomed. Today was the second Tuesday of the month, and aside from the steady stream of tourists seeking her skills, her regulars would include Tom Rinner for his bi-weekly hair cut, Ida Moffat for a trim of her much-hated split ends, Susan Nolton for another phase of an ongoing technicolor dye job, the end result of which would make her hair appear to be a cascading rainbow that Sasha found immense fun in undertaking, and finally Old Man Jenkins for his weekly application of Dr. Gold's Beard Taming Oil, a ritual he'd remained faithful to since his sixtieth birthday at which he decided that he would grow a beard and answer only to the name Old Man Jenkins, rather than his previous Ivan Pharrel. Of all Sasha's clients, he was one of her favorites.
With her in the studio, as always, was Sasha's assistant, secretary of appointments, hair sweeper, coffee getter, and idle debate opponent, the multi-talented yet slightly overworked Jacqui Lawson. Hired around the time Sasha's independent venture had blossomed into a legitimate business, it was Jacqui's duty to see to all affairs while Sasha's hands were full, that being a rather large portion of the day, and as conversations with the clients only lasted until they left the chair, to help in exercising Sasha's mind (which on the slower days was prone to wander) with stimulating conversation and intelligent debate. The fact that this also kept them both cheery through the day was a most welcome side effect; before long into Jacqui's employment, the two had fostered a unique and highly cherished friendship.
As with most second Tuesdays of the month, today seemed as predictable as always, with just a few small wrinkles. Sasha couldn't exactly identify what it was, but something on this day was definitely peculiar, in that vague, itchy, shifty way that told you your day was strange. It took the two of them about three hours into the day, being sidetracked by regulars and conversation, before they realized what one of the particular oddities was; glancing out the large window, everyone walking the street outside was walking in the same direction. Odd, since a variety of businesses peppered the neighborhood and pedestrian traffic was always an erratic dance of dozens of people going from personal point A's to point B's. What could be happening to draw everyone to the same direction? This confounded Sasha, and while Jacqui knew she was free to simply step out of the studio and ask someone, it was much more fun to try and come up with increasingly preposterous explanations while Sasha performed her craft, trying not to laugh too hard at Jacqui's silly theories.
Snip Snip
"A mind-controlling fungus, Jacqui?" Sasha began to argue, "honestly I thought you said you were going to give those old sci-fi movies a break. And besides, the nearest lake is east of here, why would fungus living in people's brains move west, away from the nearest source of moisture?"
"Well obviously the fungus knows everything that the people know," Jacqui retorted, "and one of those things happens to be the fact that we have irrigation systems and handy bottles full of water, the nearest stockpile of which is the grocery store, the one just a few streets west of here."
"Oh my god, what do you think will happen when the Mushroom People find their way to the produce section?" Sasha began to laugh, "When they see all the little mushrooms sliced, diced, and shrink-wrapped and- and probably on SALE, no less!"
"It'll most likely be a complete overreaction on their side." Jacqui began to hypothesize, "They'll most likely declare a full scale war on humanity and quickly conquer the world a-la Planet of the Apes. Honestly though, I didn't see Mushroom People as a possible apocalypse; mushroom clouds, but not Mushroom People."
Even after noticing the odd foot traffic of the people outside, something still made Sasha itch about today. She looked at the calendar, decorated with circles and arrows denoting important dates, but today was completely bare, there was nothing to forget, so why did she feel like she was trying to remember something?
The gentle jingle of the studio's doorbell broke Sasha's concentration as her eyes darted to see her next client, and to her surprise, the probable cause of the itchy feeling. It was Marcus Feldman, once one of her regulars, but for the past four months had not so much as set foot in the studio, or anywhere within sight of her window for that matter, how delightfully odd.
"Marcus!" Sasha and Jacqui shouted in happy surprise. With his brown hair down to his shoulders, it was clear that the young man hadn't been to see Sasha, or any barber for that matter, any time in the last third-year. Sasha had thought he'd simply moved to another town after his 18th birthday, as was the custom of many college-bound teens. To see an old regular again after such a long hiatus was something that always made her smile, but something about Marcus' demeanor told her that the feeling wasn't entirely mutual at the moment.
"H-hi Sasha... um... any chance you've got a walk-in slot available?" Marcus asked, his nervousness couldn't be any more obvious. "I... kinda need a haircut."
"Well lucky for you Marcus, today's been kinda slow. Everybody seems to be making their way west for some reason."
"Oh that's for my Grandpa's wake, he passed away last week and well, you know how everyone knew Grandpa Feldman, they're all off to pay their respects."
"Oh Marcus, I'm so sorry. I loved your grandpa, hell everyone did. He was practically the heart of the whole town, always had a smile on his face, inviting people to his barbecues, and as far as the rich and retired go I've never seen anyone as generous with their wealth as him." Sasha was about to ask if Grandpa Feldman went peacefully, but judging from how off Marcus looked, decided it probably wouldn't be very polite to prod any further.
"Yeah..." Marcus sighed, "Grandpa was a really awesome guy. Even up until he passed he insisted that nobody be sad on account of him, so instead of the whole traditional black funeral clothes he insisted nobody be let in unless they're wearing something they'd normally wear on a Tuesday, he even has my dad and uncles working grills so people can treat it like another one of his big barbecues. It's easier to remember the good times with him that way, which I guess is the way he would've wanted it. He even gave instructions to auction off his stuff and give all of the money to the local homeless shelter. Well, everything that he didn't specifically give away in his will. I suppose he wanted specific people to have special mementos of their time with him, he even left me his big armchair that he used to read stories to me in when I was little." Marcus casually thumbed away a tear at the memory as his voice cracked. "I never realized how much that chair meant to me until I saw that he left it to me."
The three of them stood in silence for a few moments until Jacqui spoke up. "Well someone once told me that some people bring joy wherever they go, some whenever they go. You're gramps really set the bar, Marcus. We're all gonna miss him"
"Thanks, Jacqui." Marcus said, cracking a polite smile. "That's actually a pretty good one, I might use that at the picnic to lighten the mood a little. Actually that's why I'm here, I'm supposed to give like, a speech or something in honor of Grandpa, I figure I owe it to him to look my best, so who else but Sasha Scissorhands?"
Sasha smiled at the mention of her nickname, it reminded her of people spreading rumors that the scissors stayed in her hands for such a long time that they bonded to her fingers.
"Well have a seat Marcus, we'll get you all gussied up for your big speech." Jacqui said, gesturing towards the only chair in the room.
"Thanks ladies, I really appreciate it. If either of you ever need a last minute favor-"
"Actually, there's something I'd like to know." Sasha cut Marcus off. "Marcus why haven't we seen you around lately? You used to be a regular but then you just up and vanished, and by the looks of it you haven't seen any other barber in the last four months and correct me if I'm wrong but I never took you for the type of guy who grows his hair out on a whim, what gives?"
Marcus lowered his gaze to the floor while Sasha fitted the large black canvas over every part of him from the neck down. It wasn't until she began cutting his jagged edges of hair that he finally started to speak again.
"I'm sorry Sasha, I wanted to tell you but... I was afraid."
"Afraid of what I might think? What do you mean?"
"Not afraid of what you might think, afraid of you."
"Why would you be afraid of me? We've known each other for... what's it been, Jacqui, seven years?"
"Eight years, I'm pretty sure." Jacqui confirmed.
"Whichever, still a long time Marcus, why would you just all of a sudden start being afraid of me?"
Snip Snip
"Well, if you want the simple truth, it was something Izabelle told me. She said I'd meet my end in a barber's chair. She didn't say when, but when my time came, I'd be 'sitting in the chair of a barber' her exact words."
"Oh... I see." Sasha said, suddenly pensive in her combs and cuts.
Izabelle was a relatively old fortune teller and palm reader, normally a career that Sasha would shrug off as just an expensive way to kill fifteen minutes and get no useful advice or accurate forecasts even as far as an hour, Izabelle had an uncanny accuracy rating. So much so that it was rumored that she was the real deal. Sure some of the predictions she made never came true, like the winning lottery numbers spelling out the time of the mayor's death down to the minute, which prompted the mayor to hide in his office for 24 hours straight until that time had passed in every single time zone. But Izabelle's predictions were normally on point, which meant if she had something to say to you and you had a single brain in your head, you'd do well to listen. And unless you were a complete degenerate, you'd at least tip her enough to get some lunch.
"And so what prompted this sudden act of bravery? I've never known you to be one to tempt fate Marcus, always playing it safe, hell you never even crossed the street without the 'walk' signal on."
"Well actually, during the last few days of his life, Grandpa kind of imparted a lot of advice to me. He told me 'Marc, don't you ever let fear of death keep you from living. Trust me, the Grim Reaper's a nice guy, and if you got some good stories when he comes for you, he'll probably take you the scenic route on the way to the other side.' So I decided that even if I died here today, I'll probably just make some wise crack to the Reaper like 'whoops, looks like she took too much off the top!'"
Sasha and Jacqui both started laughing at that thought.
"Besides Sasha, you're the best barber the town's ever had, you've had literally thousands of people in this chair and you've never so much as nicked an ear in all that time, after a while I figured if I died in your chair, it'd probably be from something I couldn't avoid anyway; like an atom bomb or a fire or-"
"Or pissed off Mushroom People." Jacqui added, followed by a short pause, followed by laughter.
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"Well Marcus, I'm glad you could bring yourself to stare death in the face." Sasha said, spinning the chair around so that Marcus could face the mirror, "And I think you'll find the reward for such bravery is a pretty damn good haircut, if I do say so myself." And it was true, Marcus marveled at how, even with complete absence of instruction, Sasha had made him look exactly as he imagined he would.
Marcus let out a sigh of relief, "Well, this time at least, I guess I'll be tempting fate every two weeks for the rest of my natural life, huh?" Sasha gave a small smile as she removed the canvas and collected her fare, with a rather generous tip. "I'll see you both again next next Tuesday, go ahead and start putting me on the schedule." Marcus said as he strolled out the door, walking as though he had just dropped a giant boulder off of his shoulders.
"This town gets stranger and stranger every day, seems like." Jacqui said, sweeping up the loose hair on the ground. "But I suppose it's better than stagnating in some boring city."
"Exactly why you'll never catch me working at a Paul Mitchell." Sasha replied, "I live for days like these."
Again the gentle ring of the doorbell broke Sasha's and Jacqui's concentration as they saw their next client.
"Old Man Jenkins!" Sasha happily shouted, "The same old oil treatment again?"
"Damn skippy, maybe a trim too, I'm s'poseda give a speech at Old Feldman's wake, seein's how I knew him the longest of anyone else in town."
Sasha's face saddened at the mention of Grandpa Feldman's passing again.
"Oh now don't you start gettin' all sad on his account. Last thing he ever wanted you young'uns to do when you thought of him was frown."
Sasha took a deep breath and forced a smile out of her face, "You're right Mr. Jenkins, tell you what, you're my last appointment today, so after we get your beard in order we'll close up shop and all head over to the wake together."
"First of all, I don't know where this 'mister' business is coming from, you know damn well you say the whole thing; 'Old Man Jenkins'. Second, yes, a nice walk with you lovely ladies sounds pretty nice, provided those sons o' his don't run out of those pulled pork sammiches."
"So what do you think you'll say at the wake, Mist- Old Man Jenkins?" Jacqui asked, flipping the "OPEN" sign on the door to "CLOSED". "You probably got a lot of good stories about Mr. Feldman, right?"
"Missy I got enough stories about that old coot to fill one big-ass book, I swear that man never took a damn day to rest, even after he got the bad news from the doctor, it was like he was in a race with time over how much he could get done. He took classes, online lessons, got his PhD in Mathematics, his CPA, his real estate license, hell he was even a licensed barber!"
"A barber?" Sasha asked, while combing oil into Old Man Jenkins' beard. "I never knew he wanted to be a barber."
"Oh he didn't, never planned to actually do anything with it at least, figure gettin' the license was just something he could do in the amount of time he had left."
"Hey Sasha?" Jacqui piped, "I just got a shiver... you remember what Marcus said Izabelle told him? About the barber's chair?"
"I do." Sasha said, still combing Old Man Jenkins' beard.
"And what he said about his grandpa leaving him that old armchair?"
"...Well I'll be damned," Sasha said, with her smile completely vanished. "Sounds like I owe Izabelle a lunch."
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The customers, oh how she loved the customers; the smell of their hair, the sometimes nonsensical contours of their skin, and her job afforded her a level of intimacy that would certainly not be abided in any other profession. People listened to her when they sat in her chair, and why not? When she spoke to someone in that chair, her word was practically law; she would have the very last word on any new style a client wanted to try, any brash and daring colors they wanted their hair to be, and no one dared question her. After all the decisions were made, she would delve deeper, beyond and below the fragile surfaces that she sculpted and repaired, and partook in deep and meaningful conversations with the customer, from the monotony of their weekly lives, to their fondest memories, their deepest hopes and their darkest fears. They trusted her implicitly, their head cradled in her tensile and deliberate fingers, fingers holding the sharpest instruments you'd ever hope to find, and yet in Sasha's care, not one customer in her tenure had left with so much as a scratch.
Snip Snip
Her chair, the only chair in her cozy little studio, was a fine restoration of an old Prohibition-era model, with solid polished oak frame, and upholstered with a warm chocolate-brown leather that made it seem so inviting that it might as well have a voice of its own, beckoning every passerby to come and have a sit. She had a large window installed to replace the wall separating her studio from the street outside, in the building's old age, the wall had become infested with nasty molds of various colors, and rather than spend exorbitant amounts of time and money to remove the molds, she'd simply had the wall removed entirely to be replaced by a large pane of solid (and quite mold-proof) glass. This seemed to help her business in other ways, with the natural light coming in during the day, her customers could see their new looks as the light of the sun hit them, a sensation she equated to "seeing yourself for the very first time", and her customers loved the sense of rejuvenation and renewal that it granted them.
Sasha's daily routine was always the same, and yet always different; from open to close her chair was full of people who wanted touch-ups, trims, shaves, dye jobs, and at odd intervals the "complete change-up makeover". None of which ever happened without Sasha's approval, she'd never allow someone to leave her studio looking foolishly groomed. Today was the second Tuesday of the month, and aside from the steady stream of tourists seeking her skills, her regulars would include Tom Rinner for his bi-weekly hair cut, Ida Moffat for a trim of her much-hated split ends, Susan Nolton for another phase of an ongoing technicolor dye job, the end result of which would make her hair appear to be a cascading rainbow that Sasha found immense fun in undertaking, and finally Old Man Jenkins for his weekly application of Dr. Gold's Beard Taming Oil, a ritual he'd remained faithful to since his sixtieth birthday at which he decided that he would grow a beard and answer only to the name Old Man Jenkins, rather than his previous Ivan Pharrel. Of all Sasha's clients, he was one of her favorites.
With her in the studio, as always, was Sasha's assistant, secretary of appointments, hair sweeper, coffee getter, and idle debate opponent, the multi-talented yet slightly overworked Jacqui Lawson. Hired around the time Sasha's independent venture had blossomed into a legitimate business, it was Jacqui's duty to see to all affairs while Sasha's hands were full, that being a rather large portion of the day, and as conversations with the clients only lasted until they left the chair, to help in exercising Sasha's mind (which on the slower days was prone to wander) with stimulating conversation and intelligent debate. The fact that this also kept them both cheery through the day was a most welcome side effect; before long into Jacqui's employment, the two had fostered a unique and highly cherished friendship.
As with most second Tuesdays of the month, today seemed as predictable as always, with just a few small wrinkles. Sasha couldn't exactly identify what it was, but something on this day was definitely peculiar, in that vague, itchy, shifty way that told you your day was strange. It took the two of them about three hours into the day, being sidetracked by regulars and conversation, before they realized what one of the particular oddities was; glancing out the large window, everyone walking the street outside was walking in the same direction. Odd, since a variety of businesses peppered the neighborhood and pedestrian traffic was always an erratic dance of dozens of people going from personal point A's to point B's. What could be happening to draw everyone to the same direction? This confounded Sasha, and while Jacqui knew she was free to simply step out of the studio and ask someone, it was much more fun to try and come up with increasingly preposterous explanations while Sasha performed her craft, trying not to laugh too hard at Jacqui's silly theories.
Snip Snip
"A mind-controlling fungus, Jacqui?" Sasha began to argue, "honestly I thought you said you were going to give those old sci-fi movies a break. And besides, the nearest lake is east of here, why would fungus living in people's brains move west, away from the nearest source of moisture?"
"Well obviously the fungus knows everything that the people know," Jacqui retorted, "and one of those things happens to be the fact that we have irrigation systems and handy bottles full of water, the nearest stockpile of which is the grocery store, the one just a few streets west of here."
"Oh my god, what do you think will happen when the Mushroom People find their way to the produce section?" Sasha began to laugh, "When they see all the little mushrooms sliced, diced, and shrink-wrapped and- and probably on SALE, no less!"
"It'll most likely be a complete overreaction on their side." Jacqui began to hypothesize, "They'll most likely declare a full scale war on humanity and quickly conquer the world a-la Planet of the Apes. Honestly though, I didn't see Mushroom People as a possible apocalypse; mushroom clouds, but not Mushroom People."
Even after noticing the odd foot traffic of the people outside, something still made Sasha itch about today. She looked at the calendar, decorated with circles and arrows denoting important dates, but today was completely bare, there was nothing to forget, so why did she feel like she was trying to remember something?
The gentle jingle of the studio's doorbell broke Sasha's concentration as her eyes darted to see her next client, and to her surprise, the probable cause of the itchy feeling. It was Marcus Feldman, once one of her regulars, but for the past four months had not so much as set foot in the studio, or anywhere within sight of her window for that matter, how delightfully odd.
"Marcus!" Sasha and Jacqui shouted in happy surprise. With his brown hair down to his shoulders, it was clear that the young man hadn't been to see Sasha, or any barber for that matter, any time in the last third-year. Sasha had thought he'd simply moved to another town after his 18th birthday, as was the custom of many college-bound teens. To see an old regular again after such a long hiatus was something that always made her smile, but something about Marcus' demeanor told her that the feeling wasn't entirely mutual at the moment.
"H-hi Sasha... um... any chance you've got a walk-in slot available?" Marcus asked, his nervousness couldn't be any more obvious. "I... kinda need a haircut."
"Well lucky for you Marcus, today's been kinda slow. Everybody seems to be making their way west for some reason."
"Oh that's for my Grandpa's wake, he passed away last week and well, you know how everyone knew Grandpa Feldman, they're all off to pay their respects."
"Oh Marcus, I'm so sorry. I loved your grandpa, hell everyone did. He was practically the heart of the whole town, always had a smile on his face, inviting people to his barbecues, and as far as the rich and retired go I've never seen anyone as generous with their wealth as him." Sasha was about to ask if Grandpa Feldman went peacefully, but judging from how off Marcus looked, decided it probably wouldn't be very polite to prod any further.
"Yeah..." Marcus sighed, "Grandpa was a really awesome guy. Even up until he passed he insisted that nobody be sad on account of him, so instead of the whole traditional black funeral clothes he insisted nobody be let in unless they're wearing something they'd normally wear on a Tuesday, he even has my dad and uncles working grills so people can treat it like another one of his big barbecues. It's easier to remember the good times with him that way, which I guess is the way he would've wanted it. He even gave instructions to auction off his stuff and give all of the money to the local homeless shelter. Well, everything that he didn't specifically give away in his will. I suppose he wanted specific people to have special mementos of their time with him, he even left me his big armchair that he used to read stories to me in when I was little." Marcus casually thumbed away a tear at the memory as his voice cracked. "I never realized how much that chair meant to me until I saw that he left it to me."
The three of them stood in silence for a few moments until Jacqui spoke up. "Well someone once told me that some people bring joy wherever they go, some whenever they go. You're gramps really set the bar, Marcus. We're all gonna miss him"
"Thanks, Jacqui." Marcus said, cracking a polite smile. "That's actually a pretty good one, I might use that at the picnic to lighten the mood a little. Actually that's why I'm here, I'm supposed to give like, a speech or something in honor of Grandpa, I figure I owe it to him to look my best, so who else but Sasha Scissorhands?"
Sasha smiled at the mention of her nickname, it reminded her of people spreading rumors that the scissors stayed in her hands for such a long time that they bonded to her fingers.
"Well have a seat Marcus, we'll get you all gussied up for your big speech." Jacqui said, gesturing towards the only chair in the room.
"Thanks ladies, I really appreciate it. If either of you ever need a last minute favor-"
"Actually, there's something I'd like to know." Sasha cut Marcus off. "Marcus why haven't we seen you around lately? You used to be a regular but then you just up and vanished, and by the looks of it you haven't seen any other barber in the last four months and correct me if I'm wrong but I never took you for the type of guy who grows his hair out on a whim, what gives?"
Marcus lowered his gaze to the floor while Sasha fitted the large black canvas over every part of him from the neck down. It wasn't until she began cutting his jagged edges of hair that he finally started to speak again.
"I'm sorry Sasha, I wanted to tell you but... I was afraid."
"Afraid of what I might think? What do you mean?"
"Not afraid of what you might think, afraid of you."
"Why would you be afraid of me? We've known each other for... what's it been, Jacqui, seven years?"
"Eight years, I'm pretty sure." Jacqui confirmed.
"Whichever, still a long time Marcus, why would you just all of a sudden start being afraid of me?"
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"Well, if you want the simple truth, it was something Izabelle told me. She said I'd meet my end in a barber's chair. She didn't say when, but when my time came, I'd be 'sitting in the chair of a barber' her exact words."
"Oh... I see." Sasha said, suddenly pensive in her combs and cuts.
Izabelle was a relatively old fortune teller and palm reader, normally a career that Sasha would shrug off as just an expensive way to kill fifteen minutes and get no useful advice or accurate forecasts even as far as an hour, Izabelle had an uncanny accuracy rating. So much so that it was rumored that she was the real deal. Sure some of the predictions she made never came true, like the winning lottery numbers spelling out the time of the mayor's death down to the minute, which prompted the mayor to hide in his office for 24 hours straight until that time had passed in every single time zone. But Izabelle's predictions were normally on point, which meant if she had something to say to you and you had a single brain in your head, you'd do well to listen. And unless you were a complete degenerate, you'd at least tip her enough to get some lunch.
"And so what prompted this sudden act of bravery? I've never known you to be one to tempt fate Marcus, always playing it safe, hell you never even crossed the street without the 'walk' signal on."
"Well actually, during the last few days of his life, Grandpa kind of imparted a lot of advice to me. He told me 'Marc, don't you ever let fear of death keep you from living. Trust me, the Grim Reaper's a nice guy, and if you got some good stories when he comes for you, he'll probably take you the scenic route on the way to the other side.' So I decided that even if I died here today, I'll probably just make some wise crack to the Reaper like 'whoops, looks like she took too much off the top!'"
Sasha and Jacqui both started laughing at that thought.
"Besides Sasha, you're the best barber the town's ever had, you've had literally thousands of people in this chair and you've never so much as nicked an ear in all that time, after a while I figured if I died in your chair, it'd probably be from something I couldn't avoid anyway; like an atom bomb or a fire or-"
"Or pissed off Mushroom People." Jacqui added, followed by a short pause, followed by laughter.
Snip Snip
"Well Marcus, I'm glad you could bring yourself to stare death in the face." Sasha said, spinning the chair around so that Marcus could face the mirror, "And I think you'll find the reward for such bravery is a pretty damn good haircut, if I do say so myself." And it was true, Marcus marveled at how, even with complete absence of instruction, Sasha had made him look exactly as he imagined he would.
Marcus let out a sigh of relief, "Well, this time at least, I guess I'll be tempting fate every two weeks for the rest of my natural life, huh?" Sasha gave a small smile as she removed the canvas and collected her fare, with a rather generous tip. "I'll see you both again next next Tuesday, go ahead and start putting me on the schedule." Marcus said as he strolled out the door, walking as though he had just dropped a giant boulder off of his shoulders.
"This town gets stranger and stranger every day, seems like." Jacqui said, sweeping up the loose hair on the ground. "But I suppose it's better than stagnating in some boring city."
"Exactly why you'll never catch me working at a Paul Mitchell." Sasha replied, "I live for days like these."
Again the gentle ring of the doorbell broke Sasha's and Jacqui's concentration as they saw their next client.
"Old Man Jenkins!" Sasha happily shouted, "The same old oil treatment again?"
"Damn skippy, maybe a trim too, I'm s'poseda give a speech at Old Feldman's wake, seein's how I knew him the longest of anyone else in town."
Sasha's face saddened at the mention of Grandpa Feldman's passing again.
"Oh now don't you start gettin' all sad on his account. Last thing he ever wanted you young'uns to do when you thought of him was frown."
Sasha took a deep breath and forced a smile out of her face, "You're right Mr. Jenkins, tell you what, you're my last appointment today, so after we get your beard in order we'll close up shop and all head over to the wake together."
"First of all, I don't know where this 'mister' business is coming from, you know damn well you say the whole thing; 'Old Man Jenkins'. Second, yes, a nice walk with you lovely ladies sounds pretty nice, provided those sons o' his don't run out of those pulled pork sammiches."
"So what do you think you'll say at the wake, Mist- Old Man Jenkins?" Jacqui asked, flipping the "OPEN" sign on the door to "CLOSED". "You probably got a lot of good stories about Mr. Feldman, right?"
"Missy I got enough stories about that old coot to fill one big-ass book, I swear that man never took a damn day to rest, even after he got the bad news from the doctor, it was like he was in a race with time over how much he could get done. He took classes, online lessons, got his PhD in Mathematics, his CPA, his real estate license, hell he was even a licensed barber!"
"A barber?" Sasha asked, while combing oil into Old Man Jenkins' beard. "I never knew he wanted to be a barber."
"Oh he didn't, never planned to actually do anything with it at least, figure gettin' the license was just something he could do in the amount of time he had left."
"Hey Sasha?" Jacqui piped, "I just got a shiver... you remember what Marcus said Izabelle told him? About the barber's chair?"
"I do." Sasha said, still combing Old Man Jenkins' beard.
"And what he said about his grandpa leaving him that old armchair?"
"...Well I'll be damned," Sasha said, with her smile completely vanished. "Sounds like I owe Izabelle a lunch."
Snip Snip
Sunday, February 15, 2015
Happy Valentine's Day?
I've always felt a little iffy about valentine's day; maybe it's the fact that it's another Hallmark holiday designed to sell overpriced rocks, flowers and chocolate, maybe I'm just not a fan of being reminded that I'm single. It's likely a bit of both, but that's not what I want to talk about.
Valentine's day has always felt like a proverbial double-edged sword to me; on the one hand, being single is no fun on a day when couples seem to be at their lovey-doveyest, left with nothing but a sinking feeling that there was a memo that you just didn't get when all of humanity decided to pair off. On the other, if you are indeed in a relationship, there's that weird societal pressure to pull out all the stops to show your significant other how deep your love for them goes, and if somewhere in the "surprise" gift exchange, your demonstrations of love don't seem to match in depth, you find yourself panicking on the hidden meaning of a singing stuffed bear vs. a reservation for a romantic carriage ride through one of the more scenic neighborhoods.
In some ways, I really feel worse for the couples that feel compelled to go the extra mile on an arbitrary day in February. Even the gifts that seem to emanate from the heart, such as a lovely poem composed to capture the lustrous beauty that hides deep within your beloved's eyes, or maybe a special picnic of the reddest strawberries you could possibly find to nibble on in audience of a perfect sunset that you two gaze upon in quiet contemplation of how you want this perfect feeling to go on forever, seem somehow cheapened by simply occurring on this one stupid day.
Why? Because you feel expected to? Because if you can't set a date to pull off a grand romantic gesture that your beloved will wake up from a magic spell and discover what an absolutely insensitive and self-absorbed asshat you are? You're smart, I'll vouch for that myself, because you're a rational human being. So what is that fear that keeps us up in the days leading up to February 14th?
I don't like valentine's day. Not even a little. Frankly I believe we'd all be better off without it; those that are single, and those that are lucky enough to have someone to warm the sheets with would all benefit from valentine's day simply disappearing. Think about it for just a moment, if there was no day that we felt obligated to empty our savings on a single day of blinding romance, if instead of the big, loud, flashy moments we instead had quiet, intimate moments, where two human beings could find themselves finally comfortable enough to drop the elaborate facade and let themselves be seen as they truly are, and connect on a level deeper than they themselves knew existed, if those who've yet to find that special someone could be brought to understand their singlehood not as a curse, but a small part of a grander adventure, wouldn't we be happier?
Wouldn't we feel less alone?
All arguments aside, know this; if you are alive, you are loved. And though we as logical beings crave to quantify everything so a chaotic world makes sense, love dodges that category of numbers and equations. A random day, named for a random saint, with random customs, has no bearing on how you should feel about yourself or anyone else. When it comes down to the very bare bones of it, Valentine's day is what you make of it, and it's no one's decision of how much or how little it means but your own.
And it may or may not count for much, but if you're reading this, consider it a special valentine, from one person who's view of the world may be a tad askew.
I love you, happy valentine's day.
Valentine's day has always felt like a proverbial double-edged sword to me; on the one hand, being single is no fun on a day when couples seem to be at their lovey-doveyest, left with nothing but a sinking feeling that there was a memo that you just didn't get when all of humanity decided to pair off. On the other, if you are indeed in a relationship, there's that weird societal pressure to pull out all the stops to show your significant other how deep your love for them goes, and if somewhere in the "surprise" gift exchange, your demonstrations of love don't seem to match in depth, you find yourself panicking on the hidden meaning of a singing stuffed bear vs. a reservation for a romantic carriage ride through one of the more scenic neighborhoods.
In some ways, I really feel worse for the couples that feel compelled to go the extra mile on an arbitrary day in February. Even the gifts that seem to emanate from the heart, such as a lovely poem composed to capture the lustrous beauty that hides deep within your beloved's eyes, or maybe a special picnic of the reddest strawberries you could possibly find to nibble on in audience of a perfect sunset that you two gaze upon in quiet contemplation of how you want this perfect feeling to go on forever, seem somehow cheapened by simply occurring on this one stupid day.
Why? Because you feel expected to? Because if you can't set a date to pull off a grand romantic gesture that your beloved will wake up from a magic spell and discover what an absolutely insensitive and self-absorbed asshat you are? You're smart, I'll vouch for that myself, because you're a rational human being. So what is that fear that keeps us up in the days leading up to February 14th?
I don't like valentine's day. Not even a little. Frankly I believe we'd all be better off without it; those that are single, and those that are lucky enough to have someone to warm the sheets with would all benefit from valentine's day simply disappearing. Think about it for just a moment, if there was no day that we felt obligated to empty our savings on a single day of blinding romance, if instead of the big, loud, flashy moments we instead had quiet, intimate moments, where two human beings could find themselves finally comfortable enough to drop the elaborate facade and let themselves be seen as they truly are, and connect on a level deeper than they themselves knew existed, if those who've yet to find that special someone could be brought to understand their singlehood not as a curse, but a small part of a grander adventure, wouldn't we be happier?
Wouldn't we feel less alone?
All arguments aside, know this; if you are alive, you are loved. And though we as logical beings crave to quantify everything so a chaotic world makes sense, love dodges that category of numbers and equations. A random day, named for a random saint, with random customs, has no bearing on how you should feel about yourself or anyone else. When it comes down to the very bare bones of it, Valentine's day is what you make of it, and it's no one's decision of how much or how little it means but your own.
And it may or may not count for much, but if you're reading this, consider it a special valentine, from one person who's view of the world may be a tad askew.
I love you, happy valentine's day.
Tuesday, September 23, 2014
Flying Spaghetti Monster Is My Copilot
Some time ago the U.S. Air Force had renewed their enlistment oath to make any mention of God optional, and other military branches may soon be following suit. As you might expect (sadly enough) a lot of people are irate, disgruntled, and pissed off in general that their favorite deity is no longer forced to be acknowledged by every airman that sells whole chunks of their lives to the military.
First, I'll take this time to clearly point out that as far as religion goes, I'm very objective. I see the Bible, the Torah, the Koran, every holy book as a work of fiction that, while they carry excellent messages of being a better person, should be regarded with the same levelheadedness as a comic book. I would be justifiably assassinated for fear of madness if I ruled a country and demanded that every service member swore an oath of fealty to Batman, and there's no reason that a single deity of a single religion should be sworn loyalty to by thousands of people who frankly may not even believe that particular deity even exists.
Please don't misunderstand me, I do believe that religion is a positive and at times necessary piece of society, even given the fact that many MANY people bend their own interpretations of their book of choice to try and force arbitrary laws onto others based on their own fears or prejudices. *cough cough* leviticus *cough*.
Nevertheless, this has not stopped people from voicing several arguments (however feeble) out of a defensive predisposition of their own favorite book. There are some that believe that our soldiers and sailors need God looking out for them, and to that I sincerely ask;
Do you not know what "optional" means?
This is something that I've had to deal with for years given my own religious preference, dealing with people that seem to believe that someone who doesn't believe in their God is a living insult to everything they believe in. I've spoken with tons of people who don't like Star Wars and their opinions have done literally nothing to deter my love of those movies. And yes, I am absolutely referring to a fictional movie and religion in the same light.
There are also others that believe that mentions of God in the enlistment oath is a part of a long tradition and should not be changed due to changing likes and dislikes, many of whom have gone on record saying "if you don't like it, don't join".
Tragic, given that this was almost a valid argument before it went full "albatross landing" at the end.
Firstly, this is the only time I've ever seen people seem picky about who sells years of their life in service to the military to keep the rest of the country safe, and it's both hilariously sad and sadly hilarious that religion is found at the center of that concern. Secondly, if the concern is more centrally based on people belligerently disobeying rules in the military consider this, no one officially enlisted in any branch of military has ever taken that oath, one is not officially a part of military service until they have recited the oath word for word. Furthermore, there's some basic rules that are just as old as the American military that guarantees people are not to be forced to worship a certain deity or observe any religious custom that they do not wish to.
Personally I'm still waiting for the day that either current religion is regarded in the same nostalgic sense as Zeus, Thor, Jupiter, or Osiris. Or, even better, when every work of fiction can have it's own religious following and I can take the stand at any court with my hand on a stack of Batman comics.
Finally, if you're reading this and I have upset you in some way, I want to try something crazy. Instead of just getting pissed off and finding solace in Facebook feeds that parrot your own opinion back to you, reply to me personally. There's a comments section right below this post and I'll gladly oblige any thoughtful argument to the contrary of my ideas. Let's discuss this like rational adults.
May the Force be with you.
First, I'll take this time to clearly point out that as far as religion goes, I'm very objective. I see the Bible, the Torah, the Koran, every holy book as a work of fiction that, while they carry excellent messages of being a better person, should be regarded with the same levelheadedness as a comic book. I would be justifiably assassinated for fear of madness if I ruled a country and demanded that every service member swore an oath of fealty to Batman, and there's no reason that a single deity of a single religion should be sworn loyalty to by thousands of people who frankly may not even believe that particular deity even exists.
Please don't misunderstand me, I do believe that religion is a positive and at times necessary piece of society, even given the fact that many MANY people bend their own interpretations of their book of choice to try and force arbitrary laws onto others based on their own fears or prejudices. *cough cough* leviticus *cough*.
Nevertheless, this has not stopped people from voicing several arguments (however feeble) out of a defensive predisposition of their own favorite book. There are some that believe that our soldiers and sailors need God looking out for them, and to that I sincerely ask;
Do you not know what "optional" means?
This is something that I've had to deal with for years given my own religious preference, dealing with people that seem to believe that someone who doesn't believe in their God is a living insult to everything they believe in. I've spoken with tons of people who don't like Star Wars and their opinions have done literally nothing to deter my love of those movies. And yes, I am absolutely referring to a fictional movie and religion in the same light.
There are also others that believe that mentions of God in the enlistment oath is a part of a long tradition and should not be changed due to changing likes and dislikes, many of whom have gone on record saying "if you don't like it, don't join".
Tragic, given that this was almost a valid argument before it went full "albatross landing" at the end.
Firstly, this is the only time I've ever seen people seem picky about who sells years of their life in service to the military to keep the rest of the country safe, and it's both hilariously sad and sadly hilarious that religion is found at the center of that concern. Secondly, if the concern is more centrally based on people belligerently disobeying rules in the military consider this, no one officially enlisted in any branch of military has ever taken that oath, one is not officially a part of military service until they have recited the oath word for word. Furthermore, there's some basic rules that are just as old as the American military that guarantees people are not to be forced to worship a certain deity or observe any religious custom that they do not wish to.
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| I'm just gonna leave this here. |
Personally I'm still waiting for the day that either current religion is regarded in the same nostalgic sense as Zeus, Thor, Jupiter, or Osiris. Or, even better, when every work of fiction can have it's own religious following and I can take the stand at any court with my hand on a stack of Batman comics.
Finally, if you're reading this and I have upset you in some way, I want to try something crazy. Instead of just getting pissed off and finding solace in Facebook feeds that parrot your own opinion back to you, reply to me personally. There's a comments section right below this post and I'll gladly oblige any thoughtful argument to the contrary of my ideas. Let's discuss this like rational adults.
May the Force be with you.
Friday, June 13, 2014
XBox Done
I love video games. I love everything about them. It's an artistic medium in which writers, artists, code designers, musicians, and hundreds of other people all come together to make something great. It's the only form of art in which the observer can feel like a part of the art itself, where they can feel immersed in a fictional world painstakingly created purely for their enjoyment. For a brief few hours we make a bond with everyone who put in the long hours and suffered the frustrating setbacks to bring us a small amount of joy in a world that sometimes feels like it misses no opportunity to kick us in the balls.
For much of my life I was an XBox player. Don't get me wrong, I thoroughly enjoyed PlayStation and Nintendo's many awesome gadgets, but XBox and I had formed a special relationship. I can still remember how it started with a simple game called Cel Damage. It was far from perfect, and yet it was absolutely perfect; a Twisted Metal-esque driving game where you collect crazy-ass weapons and use them to chop, burn, explode, freeze, shred, or harpoon other players until you were absolutely sick of it, which never happened. I can even credit this game with giving me a healthy relationship with my sister who was much more outdoorsy than me, but this game was something we loved playing together, it was something special that we shared even given our vastly different interests. The graphics were bad, the attempted humor of the character voices fell flat, and the physics were insanely inaccurate, but this XBox exclusive was the closest evidence to prove that there was a god of fun I could think of.
Back to the point, XBox had helped me foster friendships far and wide, albeit there were several instances in which I said terrible things to a ten-year-old who just that day learned a new swear word, but overall it became a means for a shy little kid to make friends with other people who enjoyed similar video games.
It got even better with the XBox 360; a ton more games, easier online multi-player, and achievements that made games more than progression through the story, but a story with goals that made gameplay a personal challenge. Yes, it was merely an imaginary reward, but it was never about the points, it was about the game challenging you to go beyond what you thought were your limitations in the game. They were the video game equivalent of Boy Scout badges, only of any true value to the one who earned it, but a small token of individual pride that you were beset with a goal, and of your own free will and determination, achieved it.
Over the course of most of a decade, Microsoft and I had grown close. My XBox 360 was always willing to play games no matter the time of day or for how long, it only cared about having fun. We both had our own shortcomings, but it was easily to look past. I couldn't play games nearly as much as I wanted, forcing it to wait patiently until my time became free, and 360 couldn't play any games from the old XBox that I liked, nobody's perfect. It became something along the lines of a deep friendship, I found myself arguing passionately Microsoft's merits with PS3 gamers as though they had just talked crap about my best friend.
Then E3 2013 rolled around, I couldn't have been more excited to see what my 360 would evolve into, and although the marketing executives could have picked from presumably thousands of better names, I could only imagine the amazing things it could bring with its new incarnation.
Instead I, much like every other XBox player, was rewarded with shock, disappointment, and soul-shattering betrayal in the form of DRM-related bullshit. No game sharing, a mandatory check-in every 24 hours (which meant you had to have internet service wherever you were playing), a motion sensor that would always remain on, and had to be connected or else nothing would work, and not to mention a certain Microsoft executive's oh-so-appreciative sentiment of military personnel not being able to play their new console.
For those of you who elected not to play the video, around the two minute mark this multi-millionaire dickbasket addresses the fact that some people do not have internet connectivity (he alludes specifically to people on nuclear powered submarines) and suggests that those people just stick with their XBox 360.
Microsoft clearly went down the wrong rabbit hole here when they decided to release a console with terrible policies, and then made it public knowledge that they didn't even care that some people wouldn't even be able to play it. I couldn't believe what I was hearing, here I thought Microsoft and I were friends, looking past each others' minor faults and seeing the genuine good on the inside, I wanted so badly to believe this was all a trick. I desperately held out hope that this was just a prank to get people to appreciate some mystery console Microsoft was going to release that had all the great gaming qualities that people came to expect from them. I fucking tweeted about it!
Now it's important to note that Microsoft, presumably after an afternoon of angry mob-imposed electroshock, retracted most of the terrible policies that it tried to get past everyone. We could share games, an internet connection was now only required once at startup, and they were now acting less like complete dicks towards the people from whom they received crazy amounts of money. Nevertheless, it's important to remember what the executives of Microsoft tried to do to its loyal customers. We gave nothing but love and appreciation, even countless Red Rings of Death later, and we were summarily rewarded with swift, numerous and merciless punches to the stomach and as we lay coughing on the cold ground we could only see Microsoft pulling our wallet out of our pocket, taking everything of value, throwing the empty fold of leather back in our face and capping it all off with a particularly hateful-feeling loogie to the eye.
A year later, after that complete and utter heartbreak, I can see that XBox One (for the remainder of this post I will be referring to as "XBone") has picked itself up from the depths of unfathomable hatred and has gone about its business pretending that ugliness never happened. It has exhibited its prowess as a gaming console, an entertainment center, and a tool of myriad uses. All of which to entice everyone into forgetting what it tried to do, what it honestly thought it could just get away with because "Hey I'm XBone and every single one of you will bow before me. Offer me tribute ye puny mortals, for I am the eternal next-gen console!"
So to you Microsoft I say this; It's been a year since you drunkenly stumbled into my house and viciously beat me from room to room, demanding I give you money and insisting the beatings will continue even if I paid you, and even though you've come back with flowers, gifts, and an apologetic look on your face I cannot forget the pain you inflicted on me as well as my friends. I honestly thought I could look past it after a year, but with E3 returning again all I can associate with you is agonizing despair. I never wanted it to end like this, with so much unspoken animosity between us. I honestly thought we would have another decade or so together before we had to say our goodbyes, but this... obviously you had no intention of maintaining any kind of friendship, you weren't interested in me, you were interested in my money. Maybe a few more years and you'll see just how big a mistake you made, at least, that's what I hope. Maybe you'll reflect on the consequences of your actions, maybe you'll apologize and actually mean it, but until then I don't want to hear from you. You and I are done, after over 10 years of fun and friendship you blew it. I can't forgive you, and I don't see any point in the future where I could bring myself to do so.
I wish you luck in your future XBone, hopefully you'll find happiness somewhere besides the inside of someone's wallet. As for me, I expect to never see you again, because your hurtful and heart-wrenching betrayal has given me the resolve to finally buy a Playstation 4. Sony asks nothing more of me than you did when we were friends, maybe you'll remember what that was like.
Goodbye XBone, you smug, self-imposing piece of shit.
-Peter
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| It's like Final Destination, but for your testicles. |
For much of my life I was an XBox player. Don't get me wrong, I thoroughly enjoyed PlayStation and Nintendo's many awesome gadgets, but XBox and I had formed a special relationship. I can still remember how it started with a simple game called Cel Damage. It was far from perfect, and yet it was absolutely perfect; a Twisted Metal-esque driving game where you collect crazy-ass weapons and use them to chop, burn, explode, freeze, shred, or harpoon other players until you were absolutely sick of it, which never happened. I can even credit this game with giving me a healthy relationship with my sister who was much more outdoorsy than me, but this game was something we loved playing together, it was something special that we shared even given our vastly different interests. The graphics were bad, the attempted humor of the character voices fell flat, and the physics were insanely inaccurate, but this XBox exclusive was the closest evidence to prove that there was a god of fun I could think of.
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| No, that's a fun god, not a god of fun. |
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| There we go. |
Back to the point, XBox had helped me foster friendships far and wide, albeit there were several instances in which I said terrible things to a ten-year-old who just that day learned a new swear word, but overall it became a means for a shy little kid to make friends with other people who enjoyed similar video games.
It got even better with the XBox 360; a ton more games, easier online multi-player, and achievements that made games more than progression through the story, but a story with goals that made gameplay a personal challenge. Yes, it was merely an imaginary reward, but it was never about the points, it was about the game challenging you to go beyond what you thought were your limitations in the game. They were the video game equivalent of Boy Scout badges, only of any true value to the one who earned it, but a small token of individual pride that you were beset with a goal, and of your own free will and determination, achieved it.
Over the course of most of a decade, Microsoft and I had grown close. My XBox 360 was always willing to play games no matter the time of day or for how long, it only cared about having fun. We both had our own shortcomings, but it was easily to look past. I couldn't play games nearly as much as I wanted, forcing it to wait patiently until my time became free, and 360 couldn't play any games from the old XBox that I liked, nobody's perfect. It became something along the lines of a deep friendship, I found myself arguing passionately Microsoft's merits with PS3 gamers as though they had just talked crap about my best friend.
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| This was the argument in our heads. The real one was just... sad. |
Instead I, much like every other XBox player, was rewarded with shock, disappointment, and soul-shattering betrayal in the form of DRM-related bullshit. No game sharing, a mandatory check-in every 24 hours (which meant you had to have internet service wherever you were playing), a motion sensor that would always remain on, and had to be connected or else nothing would work, and not to mention a certain Microsoft executive's oh-so-appreciative sentiment of military personnel not being able to play their new console.
For those of you who elected not to play the video, around the two minute mark this multi-millionaire dickbasket addresses the fact that some people do not have internet connectivity (he alludes specifically to people on nuclear powered submarines) and suggests that those people just stick with their XBox 360.
Microsoft clearly went down the wrong rabbit hole here when they decided to release a console with terrible policies, and then made it public knowledge that they didn't even care that some people wouldn't even be able to play it. I couldn't believe what I was hearing, here I thought Microsoft and I were friends, looking past each others' minor faults and seeing the genuine good on the inside, I wanted so badly to believe this was all a trick. I desperately held out hope that this was just a prank to get people to appreciate some mystery console Microsoft was going to release that had all the great gaming qualities that people came to expect from them. I fucking tweeted about it!
The longer I wait the less likely it seems that a Microsoft rep will jump out and yell "just kidding!" #microsoftwhy #cuphands
— Peter Kenney (@random_pete) May 30, 2013
Now it's important to note that Microsoft, presumably after an afternoon of angry mob-imposed electroshock, retracted most of the terrible policies that it tried to get past everyone. We could share games, an internet connection was now only required once at startup, and they were now acting less like complete dicks towards the people from whom they received crazy amounts of money. Nevertheless, it's important to remember what the executives of Microsoft tried to do to its loyal customers. We gave nothing but love and appreciation, even countless Red Rings of Death later, and we were summarily rewarded with swift, numerous and merciless punches to the stomach and as we lay coughing on the cold ground we could only see Microsoft pulling our wallet out of our pocket, taking everything of value, throwing the empty fold of leather back in our face and capping it all off with a particularly hateful-feeling loogie to the eye.
A year later, after that complete and utter heartbreak, I can see that XBox One (for the remainder of this post I will be referring to as "XBone") has picked itself up from the depths of unfathomable hatred and has gone about its business pretending that ugliness never happened. It has exhibited its prowess as a gaming console, an entertainment center, and a tool of myriad uses. All of which to entice everyone into forgetting what it tried to do, what it honestly thought it could just get away with because "Hey I'm XBone and every single one of you will bow before me. Offer me tribute ye puny mortals, for I am the eternal next-gen console!"
So to you Microsoft I say this; It's been a year since you drunkenly stumbled into my house and viciously beat me from room to room, demanding I give you money and insisting the beatings will continue even if I paid you, and even though you've come back with flowers, gifts, and an apologetic look on your face I cannot forget the pain you inflicted on me as well as my friends. I honestly thought I could look past it after a year, but with E3 returning again all I can associate with you is agonizing despair. I never wanted it to end like this, with so much unspoken animosity between us. I honestly thought we would have another decade or so together before we had to say our goodbyes, but this... obviously you had no intention of maintaining any kind of friendship, you weren't interested in me, you were interested in my money. Maybe a few more years and you'll see just how big a mistake you made, at least, that's what I hope. Maybe you'll reflect on the consequences of your actions, maybe you'll apologize and actually mean it, but until then I don't want to hear from you. You and I are done, after over 10 years of fun and friendship you blew it. I can't forgive you, and I don't see any point in the future where I could bring myself to do so.
I wish you luck in your future XBone, hopefully you'll find happiness somewhere besides the inside of someone's wallet. As for me, I expect to never see you again, because your hurtful and heart-wrenching betrayal has given me the resolve to finally buy a Playstation 4. Sony asks nothing more of me than you did when we were friends, maybe you'll remember what that was like.
Goodbye XBone, you smug, self-imposing piece of shit.
-Peter
Wednesday, June 4, 2014
The Fallout of Fake Nerd Zero
It's never not a good time to be introspective, and with recent events and controversies coming to light I find myself revisiting those times in my life where a select few of bad examples of a demographic had colored my opinion in a bad light. Now, it's never acceptable to judge an entire group by the few bad experiences you might've had dealing with such a tiny percentage, nevertheless the human psyche is much more apt to remember bad experiences than good ones in order to avoid repeating those bad experiences. It may be a survival mechanism encoded into our DNA, but it's no excuse to be a dick to someone. This is a lesson I've had to learn over and over again, and while it can be applied to many different circumstances, I'm going to draw from my own personal experience. Fill in the key words with whatever might be relevant to you.
Growing up as a nerd, there's one suspicion that creeps into our heads and firmly plants itself there with a custom armchair and a big-ass T.V.; the fact that while the friends we've made in our niche interest group are among the most loyal and understanding, a snowball did in fact have a better chance in hell than any of us did in finding a girlfriend. Now this is a tricky part to talk about because there have always been women in these niche groups. Nerdy girls are nothing new, there have been women in nerd circles just as long as there have been guys, though there is usually a large ratio of guys to girls in any one of these circles, and this my be our own fault; no not because of the infamous "nerd funk" that would drive away anyone with a sense of smell, but because in such a predominantly male environment many women who find common ground in a group that shares an interest in Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, Magic the Gathering or any other particular fandom often find themselves disregarding their femininity.
It's not a novel concept that many nerdy circles have a certain unisex vibe among it's members, and tragically for its female members, it usually skews in the male direction. This isn't a requirement of belonging to a group, it's merely a terrible and unintentional side effect. A young male nerd is more skittish than a deer on crack, and there's nothing more threatening or terrifying than a woman who shares his interests and is confidently exhibiting their femininity. Now it could be that women, when entering a group for the first time are fully aware of how intimidating they can be upon first encounter, and so they go completely Jane Goodall on the group and take time to learn their ways before interacting with them in order to reduce the stress caused by their presence. Then again, much more likely, and as with any group, a new member would tend to adopt a more homogenous persona in order to increase their chances of overall acceptance. As a result, we tend to see women in our groups as "one of the guys". It's not an ideal situation for a woman seeking acceptance to be in, but on the other hand being seen as "one of the guys" is an example of equality that is unseen in most other situations. Women are seen as equals, even rivals alongside men, but when it comes at a cost of being identified as a woman, is it entirely healthy? At what point can personal identity and equality both coexist?
Big questions aside, for a long while female participation was welcomed in nerd circles, they were close-knit groups that supported each other when most others would find reason to harass, torment, and/or bully them otherwise. All the while still wracked with the same festering suspicion in their minds that while they have friends they would not trade for anything in the world, they would never find themselves in a relationship.
Enter the bane of nerd culture, the single monkey wrench that could throw the gears of nerd culture out of sync, the fake nerd. This is not to be confused with how we regard the term now, but the actual true definition. One person who infiltrated the safety and sanctity of a nerd circle, for one reason or another, one example being that the "fake nerd" feels insecure and seeks validation through attention and admiration of others. Male or female, the "fake nerd" is normally one of above average looks; clear skin, attractive physique, well-maintained hair etc., who is also able to use that finely-tuned charm and feigned interest in whatever the others may be fans of to garter all attention for themselves. Suddenly an attractive person was speaking to us, it was almost unheard of that someone who could congregate with the more popular cliques would spend time with the nerds. It was new, it was exciting, our minds swam with the possibilities of breaking down barriers that divided us and sharing our passions and hobbies with others, ushering in an era of peace unheard of in human history.
Blind idealism tends to get shut down either quickly or painfully.
Again, this is a time in our lives when we were already certain that a relationship wouldn't happen, the only people we happened to have crushes on were, as we had convinced ourselves, completely out of our league. But here it was happening, maybe it was that really cute redheaded girl with that perfect smile that made you forget breathing was a necessity, maybe it was that tall, dark and handsome guy on the student council, whomever it may have been we were petrified with joy and excitement that someone like that would want to hang out with someone like us.
The next few weeks would go by, and things would be looking great. Making a new friend is always an adventure; you learn about them and teach them about you, forging a special bond that we might have hoped would develop into something more, but kept at a certain distance by our hesitant nature. Before we knew it, our new friend was also hanging out with our old friends, and below all the camaraderie, all the good cheer, all the fun... grew a tiny seed of jealousy. Before we knew it we found ourselves competing for the new "friend's" attention. We had to make sure they knew we were the most interesting, or the smartest, or had the most to offer. We could sense the rivalry in the air, and we weren't above putting lifelong friendships at risk for a fantasy relationship that might not even happen, nevertheless we were competing with each other now, for a prize that none of us knew wasn't worth it.
Unbeknownst to us, this new "friend" most likely didn't have any interest in us, or our culture, and in fact may have laughed at our expense with their other friends when we parted ways after hanging out. This was one of the worst examples of humanity, one who sees themselves as something to be put on a pedestal, a self-proclaimed god among mortals who didn't find that kind of validation in their usual circles. So what would they do? They would venture into new territory, where they could put forth the minimum amount of effort necessary to garner attention, and then play the waiting game until the citizens of this new circle were suddenly at each others throats competing for their attention. And like an old cliche, we played right into their hands.
It wouldn't be until puberty came down to a simmer and small nuggets of hard-earned wisdom finally crystallized in our heads that we would figure out exactly what had happened, and hopefully not before any true friendships were put at risk. It was a lesson we had learned the hard way, and it was one we would not soon forget. On top of every other paranoid theory that might have been seeping in the back of our minds, the fact that someone might only pretend to be interested in us in order to inflate their own ego with our attention was now among them.
If you've read this far, I admire your ability to concentrate through my seemingly endless rambling and I promise you, the point is being driven home soon.
It was this lesson that caused the hatred towards anyone that might be falsifying their geekhood to further their own agenda. We didn't want to be burned like that ever again, and so we became paranoid, distrusting, and angry. Suddenly anyone claiming to be a nerd or a geek had to prove themselves; trivia, video game skill, the size of their comic book collection, it didn't matter. We were looking for any reason to shut someone out of the safety of our own circle. And shameful as it was, it was women who suffered most from this. Any girl even moderately attractive by general standards who uttered anything like "oh, I love the Harry Potter books!" was immediately put under suspicion, and just because they couldn't remember the breeds of dragons in book four, or how students survived the basilisk attacks in book two, we shunned them, telling them to their face that they weren't a "real nerd".
Looking back I can't believe I was ever that cold. Here someone might have been looking for somewhere to belong, where they could share their common interests with us, a safe place where they could be themselves. And like overpaid bouncers at an expensive nightclub we told them to scram, get lost, we don't want you here. We can't know how far the ripples of our actions go, all we can do is try to make those actions affect others in a positive way, and back then I failed spectacularly.
So here it is, to anyone out there who might be reading this, to anyone I excluded because suspicion and antitrust clouded my good conscience, to anyone I denied the right to feel welcomed in a culture where anyone should be allowed to participate, from the bottom of my heart.
I Am Sorry.
I don't expect any sort of forgiveness, it was a shit thing to do. I should have known better, especially having seen the inside of far too many trash cans and lockers growing up. It's never okay to exclude somebody just because you think they'd just end up revealing themselves to be a wolf in sheep's clothing. This long-winded apology is just a small sentiment of what's truly owed to you, which was the chance to make new friends, a chance to belong, a chance to see that this planet isn't completely populated by assholes. That's a chance I took from you, and I can never give it back, and once again, I am sorry.
Growing up as a nerd, there's one suspicion that creeps into our heads and firmly plants itself there with a custom armchair and a big-ass T.V.; the fact that while the friends we've made in our niche interest group are among the most loyal and understanding, a snowball did in fact have a better chance in hell than any of us did in finding a girlfriend. Now this is a tricky part to talk about because there have always been women in these niche groups. Nerdy girls are nothing new, there have been women in nerd circles just as long as there have been guys, though there is usually a large ratio of guys to girls in any one of these circles, and this my be our own fault; no not because of the infamous "nerd funk" that would drive away anyone with a sense of smell, but because in such a predominantly male environment many women who find common ground in a group that shares an interest in Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, Magic the Gathering or any other particular fandom often find themselves disregarding their femininity.
It's not a novel concept that many nerdy circles have a certain unisex vibe among it's members, and tragically for its female members, it usually skews in the male direction. This isn't a requirement of belonging to a group, it's merely a terrible and unintentional side effect. A young male nerd is more skittish than a deer on crack, and there's nothing more threatening or terrifying than a woman who shares his interests and is confidently exhibiting their femininity. Now it could be that women, when entering a group for the first time are fully aware of how intimidating they can be upon first encounter, and so they go completely Jane Goodall on the group and take time to learn their ways before interacting with them in order to reduce the stress caused by their presence. Then again, much more likely, and as with any group, a new member would tend to adopt a more homogenous persona in order to increase their chances of overall acceptance. As a result, we tend to see women in our groups as "one of the guys". It's not an ideal situation for a woman seeking acceptance to be in, but on the other hand being seen as "one of the guys" is an example of equality that is unseen in most other situations. Women are seen as equals, even rivals alongside men, but when it comes at a cost of being identified as a woman, is it entirely healthy? At what point can personal identity and equality both coexist?
Big questions aside, for a long while female participation was welcomed in nerd circles, they were close-knit groups that supported each other when most others would find reason to harass, torment, and/or bully them otherwise. All the while still wracked with the same festering suspicion in their minds that while they have friends they would not trade for anything in the world, they would never find themselves in a relationship.
Enter the bane of nerd culture, the single monkey wrench that could throw the gears of nerd culture out of sync, the fake nerd. This is not to be confused with how we regard the term now, but the actual true definition. One person who infiltrated the safety and sanctity of a nerd circle, for one reason or another, one example being that the "fake nerd" feels insecure and seeks validation through attention and admiration of others. Male or female, the "fake nerd" is normally one of above average looks; clear skin, attractive physique, well-maintained hair etc., who is also able to use that finely-tuned charm and feigned interest in whatever the others may be fans of to garter all attention for themselves. Suddenly an attractive person was speaking to us, it was almost unheard of that someone who could congregate with the more popular cliques would spend time with the nerds. It was new, it was exciting, our minds swam with the possibilities of breaking down barriers that divided us and sharing our passions and hobbies with others, ushering in an era of peace unheard of in human history.
Blind idealism tends to get shut down either quickly or painfully.
Again, this is a time in our lives when we were already certain that a relationship wouldn't happen, the only people we happened to have crushes on were, as we had convinced ourselves, completely out of our league. But here it was happening, maybe it was that really cute redheaded girl with that perfect smile that made you forget breathing was a necessity, maybe it was that tall, dark and handsome guy on the student council, whomever it may have been we were petrified with joy and excitement that someone like that would want to hang out with someone like us.
The next few weeks would go by, and things would be looking great. Making a new friend is always an adventure; you learn about them and teach them about you, forging a special bond that we might have hoped would develop into something more, but kept at a certain distance by our hesitant nature. Before we knew it, our new friend was also hanging out with our old friends, and below all the camaraderie, all the good cheer, all the fun... grew a tiny seed of jealousy. Before we knew it we found ourselves competing for the new "friend's" attention. We had to make sure they knew we were the most interesting, or the smartest, or had the most to offer. We could sense the rivalry in the air, and we weren't above putting lifelong friendships at risk for a fantasy relationship that might not even happen, nevertheless we were competing with each other now, for a prize that none of us knew wasn't worth it.
Unbeknownst to us, this new "friend" most likely didn't have any interest in us, or our culture, and in fact may have laughed at our expense with their other friends when we parted ways after hanging out. This was one of the worst examples of humanity, one who sees themselves as something to be put on a pedestal, a self-proclaimed god among mortals who didn't find that kind of validation in their usual circles. So what would they do? They would venture into new territory, where they could put forth the minimum amount of effort necessary to garner attention, and then play the waiting game until the citizens of this new circle were suddenly at each others throats competing for their attention. And like an old cliche, we played right into their hands.
It wouldn't be until puberty came down to a simmer and small nuggets of hard-earned wisdom finally crystallized in our heads that we would figure out exactly what had happened, and hopefully not before any true friendships were put at risk. It was a lesson we had learned the hard way, and it was one we would not soon forget. On top of every other paranoid theory that might have been seeping in the back of our minds, the fact that someone might only pretend to be interested in us in order to inflate their own ego with our attention was now among them.
If you've read this far, I admire your ability to concentrate through my seemingly endless rambling and I promise you, the point is being driven home soon.
It was this lesson that caused the hatred towards anyone that might be falsifying their geekhood to further their own agenda. We didn't want to be burned like that ever again, and so we became paranoid, distrusting, and angry. Suddenly anyone claiming to be a nerd or a geek had to prove themselves; trivia, video game skill, the size of their comic book collection, it didn't matter. We were looking for any reason to shut someone out of the safety of our own circle. And shameful as it was, it was women who suffered most from this. Any girl even moderately attractive by general standards who uttered anything like "oh, I love the Harry Potter books!" was immediately put under suspicion, and just because they couldn't remember the breeds of dragons in book four, or how students survived the basilisk attacks in book two, we shunned them, telling them to their face that they weren't a "real nerd".
Looking back I can't believe I was ever that cold. Here someone might have been looking for somewhere to belong, where they could share their common interests with us, a safe place where they could be themselves. And like overpaid bouncers at an expensive nightclub we told them to scram, get lost, we don't want you here. We can't know how far the ripples of our actions go, all we can do is try to make those actions affect others in a positive way, and back then I failed spectacularly.
So here it is, to anyone out there who might be reading this, to anyone I excluded because suspicion and antitrust clouded my good conscience, to anyone I denied the right to feel welcomed in a culture where anyone should be allowed to participate, from the bottom of my heart.
I Am Sorry.
I don't expect any sort of forgiveness, it was a shit thing to do. I should have known better, especially having seen the inside of far too many trash cans and lockers growing up. It's never okay to exclude somebody just because you think they'd just end up revealing themselves to be a wolf in sheep's clothing. This long-winded apology is just a small sentiment of what's truly owed to you, which was the chance to make new friends, a chance to belong, a chance to see that this planet isn't completely populated by assholes. That's a chance I took from you, and I can never give it back, and once again, I am sorry.
Sunday, May 25, 2014
Marvel Studios: A Love-Hate Relationship
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| Y'all got some Iron Man 3 up in this bitch? |
Don't get me wrong, every time I see the word "Marvel" pop up on the screen, the movie gets my undivided attention, but since the executives at Marvel have seen fit to tell us about the basic plan to make 12 Avengers-centric movies, I can't help but feel the anticipation for the finished product take away from the enjoyment of each individual film. Rather than enjoy each movie based on it's own merits, I can now only see them as a stepping-stone to the next stepping-stone to the next stepping-stone to a long-awaited movie that includes all the stepping-stones.
That allusion stopped dead in it's tracks, let me try this; Pretend you're in a fancy restaurant. Not the "tiny pieces of food and a puny drizzle of sauce" kind of fancy restaurant, more along the lines of "Every single item tastes great but everything is a la carte" kind of fancy restaurant. Each Marvel movie that leads to an Avengers movie is like a side dish; grilled asparagus sprouts, potatoes au gratin, blooming onion (because any place that insinuates a blooming onion isn't good eatin' is a place I refuse to acknowledge), each of these is great on their own. But oh by the Force when these great things come together around a well-prepared steak still sizzling in its own juices, you need to sit back and soak in the reality before you're able to bring yourself to dive in.
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| Steak gives my stomach a boner... what was I talking about? |
Sure you can still appreciate every movie leading up to the finale, but with such a tantalizing feature hanging over our heads, our attention span gets stretched thinner than Reed Richards trying to lasso the moon from his backyard.
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| I scour Google for pictures to make you uncomfortable. It's an art and a science. |
Though it's not completely the fault of our short attention spans. As many of you know, it's become customary for Marvel movies to include an extra scene at the end of the credits of every movie, basically to set the stage for the next movie. As tantalizing as a sneak peak of the next movie may be, the viewing public now isn't leaving the theater talking excitedly about the movie they just watched, but now the movie they haven't seen. There's really no easier way to diminish appreciation for a movie than to basically tell everyone who watched it that the next one will be even better. I couldn't think about how much I enjoyed Iron Man 2 because I was already thinking about Thor. I couldn't fawn over the joyride Captain America provided because I was too busy wondering how The Avengers would play out. I can't even say I'll be entirely present in the new Avengers movie because the villain will be Ultron, rather than Thanos, who was the post-credits tease at the end of the first Avengers movie.
Further than the anticipation of future movies, I can only guess at the turmoil that kids will go through when they have to deal with the canon of all of these movies. "Yes little Timmy, I know you just want to watch all the Iron Man movies because he's your favorite, but you're gonna need to watch these six other movies in order to understand everything that's going on." I can only imagine that Peter Jackson is stewing in his ridiculously well re-created library of Minas Tirith about how much more shelf space the Avengers movies take up than his own, probably fueling his desire to make a six-part movie series based on the Simarillion that heavily features Gandalf for some reason, but I'm getting off track.
What about the characters? The Avengers had a pretty extensive menagerie, but with the recent buildup of other story lines, coupled with the fact that the lineup of the Avengers was always subject to change, to include superheroes from the X-Men, Fantastic Four, and any number of singular characters. And with the vast number of movies Marvel has been releasing as of late, not to mention the fact that they ALL lead up to their own sequels, we could be led to believe that a "final" Avengers movie could be one giant battle against a God-like supervillain.
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| You rang? |
But do you have any idea how ridiculously difficult it's going to be to prepare ourselves for a huge finish that ties in what could possibly be EVERY Marvel movie (not including the Toby MacGuire Spiderman movies, thank the Force)? Don't get me wrong, the fact that obsessing over the timelines of several comic book superheroes being an undertaking only truly dedicated nerds can accomplish fills me with a certain righteous joy that almost makes up for the numerous times I was crammed into things in high school. But at the same time, these are movies meant to appeal to everyone, and frankly not everyone shares the same wonderful obsessive disorders that give nerds an advantage. Of course it's likely that IF they tie in every Marvel hero that has hit the screen, they'll give a select few the actual spotlight and allow the rest to quietly occupy the screen in the manner of jumping/flying/zip lining around while explosions render the background to rubble, much like the seven or eight dwarves in the Hobbit trilogy who's names people who've only seen the movies can never remember.
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| Bombur, continuing a proud tradition of characters remembered for more than being "the fat one" |
But back to my original point, if what I postulate turns out to be what actually happens, two things will happen; First, I'm going to run up and down the streets proclaiming my clairvoyance, and secondly the movie poster will probably look something like this...
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| What's even going on? How does everyone even know each other? Who the fuck invited DareDevil? |
Marvel, I love your movies, I'm going to watch every single one and do my best to enjoy myself and resist the urge to distract myself with whatever else you have planned for your next installment. But for fuck's sake, slow the hell down, let us take in your unique ability to tie in complex storylines and revel in the unique excitement you instill in your viewers.
At least you stick to movies, not forcing your fans to research supplemental materials that they might be unable to get because they don't have cable or something. I mean, it's not like you have a television series that I've been missing out on that will be referenced in future movies and includes vital plot points for beloved characters, right? Right?
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| OH GODDAMN IT! |
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